When I analyse a birth chart what I see is the core heart of the personality. I can see what possibilities, talents, genius has naturally, what is the birthright. Normally this raw and shining crystal is faded and hidden by many layers of behaviour learned and adopted from the close environment. That is the conditioned self. I meet too many brilliant people hiding their truth and dreams…became frustrated, unhappy, looking for something, missing the sparkle of life. They forget who is their true nature because they wanted to please others, in the first place their parents, then school, friends…society.
As the one is aware of it’s true personality as this raw crystal is getting to be seen and getting polished. But I can not tell this state out of the birth chart. I have to talk in person otherwise I stay in the surface of guessing. This happens when I check a 3rd person birth chart for compatibility and I ask about that person, turns out the surface is very different that the chart shows. That is a clear sign of and unhappy person.
When I see a possible pain point in the chart, I can not tell whether the owner has solved this problem or still struggling with. I have to talk with her and talk about her life, her issues. Self aware people solves it naturally, and if moved on long time ago on that particular problem in the birth chart, thats a fantastic news! I don’t look for problems, I look for solutions. We move on to the part which is messy, full of confusion and we clean that up.
Unhappy people keep their true self down. Then they forget about. They feel the pain, they feel it’s difficult, life is not supporting, they are fighting a lot for little or less results. When this occurs, they have to go back to the basics. They have uncover their own true nature, to face with the uncomfortable and painful zone of their life.While pain is uncomfortable, pain is part of the growth. When we exercise the next few hours / day muscle soreness is following. When we hit ourself when we are learning to stand up and walk, we feel pain. Pain is just part of the process of any given level. Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional.
But when we feel the pain, we can choose our behavour and it gives us the chance to observe whats going on. When we switch to observation, we step away from the pain. Its there, but our body/mind/spirit can adapt fast and create a tiny gap between pain and us.
This give us the power to stay calm and listen. Listen what pain, doubt, sorrow telling us. Because there is a message. Message which is telling us a very important clue about our long forgot need which haven’t been fulfilled. We have to listen that need. We have to see what happened, and we have to solve it, forgive and release. Simple yet difficult to execute.
When we consult, the pain is leveraged and you start a new leap to heal your wounds. This difficult times creates more pressure.
Be gentle to yourself and help others. When you feel great suffer the best medicine is to shift your attention of your misery to other’s problem and help them to solve it, whatever is your circumstances. Make a phone call for the lonely ones, help to do the homework, help to clean or do the housework.
Keep up! These difficult times are the great soil for success. No mud no lotus!